I mean I get fat shaming till a certain extent, but just putting heavier people off based purely on appearance (turning them down sexually is more than OK, I mean turning them down as a 'normal' person/friend) is just wrong imo. You don't want to be seen with them and preferably not talk to them. Idk if I'm alone on this but I really feel like fat younger gays aren't welcome in the community. One time I got told to leave because I'm not wished on photos lmao. Same goes for gay clubs, always the nasty views and discrimination. I'm not even messaging the hot guys anymore because of obvious reasons 🤷♂️ but all these idiots really makes me wish I was straight, so I could get a hooker and move on after.
Getting told to end myself because I'm disgusting, getting insults from matches and just overall negativity is just annoying. I do, but it takes time because I'm naturally more of a lazy person and I still want to have a sex life while changing.īut holy shit some or most on dating/hook up apps are over the top. I understand and accept it - I need to change to be desired by many. So yea, not that many gays will be interested naturally.
